Advice For Your First Time Booking an Escort
If you have never visited an escort you may feel a little nervous or apprehensive. This is perfectly natural and absolutely nothing to worry about. Many men who haven’t used the services of sex workers before can feel like this and the girls will fully understand and do everything they can to make you feel at ease. One good way to think of this kind of encounter is to imagine it as a kind of date, but one where you already know that you’re going to get up close and personal. Be respectful, polite, well-groomed and punctual and you should be able to enjoy your experience with no problems at all. This guide aims to give you a few pointers to consider so that you can make the best of your experience.
Before your escort arrives at your home or hotel, it’s a good idea to make sure everything is as clean as it can be. Pay close attention to areas like the bathroom, kitchen and of course, the bedroom. Take some time to take care of yourself as well. Poor personal hygiene is always avoidable and it doesn’t take longer than five minutes to take a quick shower, clean your teeth and put on some deodorant.
When the girl arrives, don’t just start grabbing her or getting hot and heavy, try and use some manners and treat her with the same kind of respect you would any other guest in your home. Perhaps offer her a drink while she gets settled in. It makes for a far better experience for both of you if you are relaxed and comfortable. It is customary to deal with the financial side of the meeting at the start of a booking, so try and make sure you have money ready to hand over to the escort as quickly as possible. This just means you can both focus on having a great time together once this has been taken care of. Escorts will usually call their agency to let them know the transaction has taken place and that she has arrived safely. This is just a formality and it also allows the agency to delete any details you provided before the booking.
When it comes to down to having some intimate adult fun together, don’t worry too much about taking the lead and making the first move. Escort girls know how to make their clients feel at ease, so simply explain what you would like to do together and your chosen companion will take care of the rest. If you feel nervous or tense, let the girl know and she may be able to provide a massage or some conversation to relax you. Feeling this way is perfectly natural and definitely not something to worry about. Communication is important so that you can get the best out of your experience, so be specific about what you would like to do and don’t be afraid to explain about things you would prefer not to engage in. At the same time, its important to listen to your escort’s requests so that she feels comfortable. If she needs to take a break or perhaps move in to a different position, respect this. It will be a far better experience if you are both enjoying yourself.
At the end of the booking, your escort will probably chat to you for a little while and may ask to take a shower. You may like to offer her a hot drink or a glass of water out of courtesy. If you want to extend your experience, always check this with the escort herself. Sometimes this is possible but many of the most popular girls have busy schedules and social lives, so don’t expect her to stay because you offer more money. As with anything, manners and respect count for a lot, so keep this in mind at all times.
If you are visiting a girl in her own home or another venue, remember to be respectful of the space as this will make you both feel a lot more comfortable. The escort may have time to chat with you for a few minutes after the booking is complete, but remember that you should never outstay your welcome or hang around for longer than your booking was scheduled to last as this can make you both feel awkward.
Here are some of the main things to remember:
- Always make sure you have showered and taken care of personal hygiene.
- Escorts will usually provide contraceptives; however, you may want to take your own, too.
- Treat escorts as you would any other human being; with respect and courtesy.
- Arrive at appointments on time.
- Always give as much notice as possible if you need to cancel a booking.
- Remember to have any payment ready for your escort as soon as she arrives.
- Always ask permission before you do anything with an escort, not doing so may result in the booking being terminated.
- Explain what you would like to do together in advance or at least before you decide to get up close and personal.